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Working lifeThirty is the new 20?
There used to be a chatty administrative assistant in the cubicle next to mine with two children about my age. She told me that her son had recently moved back home. He has a college degree in broadcast journalism or some other creative-media field, but he's been forced to take a job as a truck driver to make ends meet. She told me that when she was his age, she was married, had two children, owned a home, worked full time and earned her college degree by taking night classes. Things are different now, she exclaimed, with understandable exasperation. I turned 30 in April, and way back when this administrative assistant was my age, this was considered "over the hill." I barely feel as if I've started climbing the hill. This birthday is obviously just another day in the calendar, but it's been a good opportunity for me to reflect on where I am in my life and what path I want to take. I've been financially independent since I graduated from college - and, of course, I have a full-time job now - but in many ways, I still act like a 20-year-old. I often leave dishes piled up in the sink or dump my clothes straight from the dryer onto my bed. I'm not terribly good at keeping up with annual Christmas cards or writing thank-you notes. I often drink coffee in lieu of dinner when I work late. Most obviously, I'm not married and I don't have kids. The future is still quite open for me. In the States, it's considered improper to ask a person's age at work since it might lead to age-related discrimination. However, one can usually guess another person's age quite easily by asking how much work experience the person has, or by asking when that person graduated from college. I've never tried to hide my age, and when I found out that two of my co-workers were also turning 30, I felt it was an event worthy of celebration. I asked my project leader whether she'd be willing to throw a party for us and she agreed. She even bought us flowers!
I will admit that I probably act young for my age. I don't know whether this is good or bad. I notice that when I'm with a group of colleagues, I'm often the most enthusiastic of the bunch. But this could easily be turned around to imply that I'm naive. All I can say is that I may feel 20 and look 25, but I've been spending some serious time thinking of how I want to live my life as a proper adult. I haven't reached any grand conclusions. No, I haven't figured out The Meaning of Life yet. Apparently, I'm not the only one who has been pondering the future. I recently got together with one of my superiors at work to discuss my work plans. He asked me about my longer-term interests, since it would help direct my actions for this year. I told him I didn't really have any plans. He is almost 50 years old and he's spent 20 years with the same company, but he told me that he still hasn't quite figured out what he wants to be when he grows up, either.
Shukan ST: May 7, 2004 (C) All rights reserved |