Essay Where's my hotel? By Kip Cates	フレームで見る  英文をプリントする  脚注をプリントする
ホテルはどこだ？ 外国を旅行するとさまざまな異文化体験をするが、その体験をどうとらえるかが問題だと筆者は言う。初めてイランを訪れたときのこと。観光中に迷子になった筆者は、現地の人にホテルへの道順を尋ねたのだが・・・。

Traveling to different countries can bring you a wealth of experiences. The problem is learning how to interpret what you see. Appearances can be deceptive. Things aren't always what they seem. A good example was my first day of sightseeing in Iran.

I'd gone off to visit a famous mosque. It was far from my hotel, but I was young, adventurous and eager to explore. When I was ready to return to my hotel, I suddenly realized that I was lost.

Luckily, a friendly Iranian was standing nearby. I decided to ask him for directions. "Excuse me," I inquired. "Can you tell me how to get to this hotel?" He immediately pointed north and announced, "It's that way!" His quick reply and confident manner convinced me that he was right.

Off I went in the direction he indicated. But the farther I went, the more I began to doubt his advice. "This is wrong," I thought. "I'd better ask someone else." I approached a second friendly Iranian and asked for directions. He immediately pointed south and, in a voice full of confidence, said, "Go that way!" "Hmm," I thought. "That doesn't seem right, either. I need another opinion."

I asked a third person. Then a fourth. Then a fifth. In each case, the same thing happened. They all replied immediately and spoke confidently, but gave different answers and pointed in random directions. Strange!

Finally, I decided to ignore their advice and trust my own instincts. I began walking and got back to my hotel 20 minutes later.

I left Iran frustrated by the way I'd been misled. The people were so nice, but why had they lied to me? Were they teasing me because I was a foreigner? Did they hate Canadians? I had no idea.

Many years later, I became a university professor and began studying world countries and cultures. One day, I found a book about Iran. In Chapter 3, there was a section on asking for directions. I read on eagerly!

"Hospitality is very important in Iran," the book stated. "When a foreign visitor needs help and asks a question, it's rude to say that you don't know. Iranian culture requires that people give an answer immediately, even if it's wrong."

Thanks to that book, I finally understood what had happened all those years ago. My first impressions were wrong. The people I had met in Iran weren't trying to mislead me. They were trying to help me! I just didn't realize it.

There are two lessons we can learn from this story. The first is that you shouldn't jump to conclusions, especially in cross-cultural interactions. The second is that it's important to learn about other cultures. If I hadn't read that book, I would have continued to believe that Iranians are liars who enjoy teasing foreign visitors!

Shukan ST: MARCH 22, 2013

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