Letter from Boston
A Fresh Start
By MASAKO YAMADA
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きれいさっぱりしてスタート
大学院で研究に追われる毎日を過ごす雅子さんは、肩こりに悩まされたり、研究室の夢を見るなど、ストレスがたまっていたようです。このストレスを一掃して新たな年を迎えるため、今回の冬休みには、いつもより長く休みをとり、家族や友人とのんびり過ごしたり、韓国式エステを体験して存分にリラックスしました。
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I hope all of you have had a nice winter holiday. I,
myself, had been looking forward to this winter holiday
for a long, long time. I had been having a few too many
dreams of life in my lab, and spending a few too many
dollars on massage and other physical therapy
treatments to alleviate the tension in my
shoulders.
In the past, I' ve tended not to spend too much time
vacationing, since I find sightseeing tiring and I
can't help feeling that the time would be better spent at
school. However, I decided to take a bit more time
off this winter so I could really take a rest.
I have this habit of thinking that I must show up to
school all the time in order to be a good student.
Indeed, this was considered a good trait in elementary
school and high school, and I never missed a day.
However, in my fifth year of graduate school, I have
finally realized that showing up at school all the time
does not necessarily help one's research.
In fact, there are a few excellent researchers in my
lab who take a few months of vacation time every year and
these breaks seem to be doing them a lot of good.
Of course, there are also a few researchers who stay up
for days on end to do their work, and they are also very
good.
The bottom line seems to be that the quality of
research doesn't seem to be correlated with
vacation time. So, I decided to take a little over two
weeks off this winter. Of this vacation time, I spent
five days visiting my parents in New Jersey and hanging
out with friends around New York.
Unlike many of my classmates in high school and college,
I don't think New York is the greatest place on earth.
Or, rather, even though I admit this might actually be
true, it doesn't make me want to go there. The loud
noises and crowds make me tired. I always find that I
need an additional vacation to recuperate after taking
a vacation in New York.
For this reason, I carefully planned a very
stress-free vacation this time around. I managed this
by eliminating everything that I don't like about the
area — tourist-trap museums and monuments for
clueless out-of-towners, trendy restaurants and bars
for yuppie natives, noise and crowds and traffic all
around — and concentrating on what means the most to me:
friends and family.
A couple of weeks before the holidays, I started to make
plans to visit friends who still live in the area. I had
not contacted some of them in five or 10 years, and it
made me very happy to think that I'd be seeing them
again. I was able to see my friends in between eating
toshikoshi soba and watching Kohaku Utagassen on cable
TV. It was the kind of vacation that I usually prefer to
visiting ruins, temples or mountains.
Another thing that I splurged on for my relaxation
trip was a visit to a Korean spa. New York is one of the
big centers of Korean immigration in the States (unlike
Boston, which has a huge Korean student population, but
no real community) and there are plenty of services
geared specifically toward the Korean population.
I was interested in visiting this spa because it has
the full-body skin-scrubbing service that Korea is so
famous for. The visit cost $100 (¥11,400) for a body
scrub, shiatsu massage, cucumber facial, shampoo and
sauna treatment. This is certainly not cheap, but it's
not as expensive as flying to Korea.
The body scrub was so intense that I could see
little, gray piles of dead skin and dirt collecting
around the table that I was lying on. This usually
happens, even if the customer bathes every day.
The massage was equally intense, with the staff member
climbing up onto the table and using her feet to give a
more powerful massage. I couldn't imagine it being a very
pleasant job, but she was extremely efficient and
professional.
It was great to forget about intellect and wit, and
even interpersonal relationships, for a while and tend
only to my body. As a matter of fact, I didn't even
have to do that, since the woman at the spa did it for
me. All I had to do was lie there and enjoy the ride. I
came out as clean and pink as a baby. There must be
something to the saying "cleanliness is next to
godliness," since I felt clean and pink inside as well.
It felt as if I'd gotten rid of a year's worth of grime
and tension. It's a good way to start the New Year.
Shukan ST: Jan. 12, 2001
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